When we get married, we dream of having a peaceful everlasting relationship full of happiness and joy. Do we really get all of it in our married lifetime? I sometime feel scared when I see couples fighting and arguing with each other on silly things. I just do not understand why do married couples have to make things so hot.
I did some research on this and I have found that most couples do not plan what to do after they marry. I think we should have something like a rule book made by the couples. This book will be written by both husband and wife mutually. The rules will be simple everyday lifestyle rules. And there should be and option of getting a reward for every good work and a punishment for every mistake.
Rewards can be given to each other in many ways. A husband can buy something for his wife such as a dress or take her to a movie. A wife can prepare a good meal which was in demand for a long time. They can also go out and party. The idea behind all this is to make each other feel nice.
Punishment on the other hand should never be too harsh or too difficult. Instead of punishment we should call it a correction. For every rule one breaks you get one correction. You may be given a food which you do not like or your car keys are taken away so that you have to travel by bus to your office.
Couples must promise each other to confess any wrong doing as soon as possible. Both of them should be given full freedom to spend time with anyone but they should disclose each other about it. This way couples will develop trust. In case of any dispute arising between the two, they should settle the matter by talking and not by arguing.
There are so many ways you can prolong your married life into happiness. Just avoid arguing and things that may lead you to disaster. And always keep yourself updated by surfing the Net for more on this subject.
